by Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
Recovery from compulsive eating is based on a foundation that
recognizes what food can and can not provide. Food is certainly
necessary for providing the sources of energy and building blocks for
our bodies to survive. Food does not function particularly adaptively
in providing a source of emotional, psychological or spiritual comfort;
that many of us use food to achieve these functions, and that food does
actually have considerable mood-altering effects, supports us in
resisting replacing food as a Higher Power with other forms of
comfort. Indeed, one operational definition of a Higher Power is
whatever we turn to in times of distress for comfort. Food is used by
the compulsive eater for just that kind of comfort.
Continue reading ""Surrendering" to Food" »
by Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
One of the common objections to compulsive overeaters attending Overeaters Anonymous is the complaint that people in these meetings talk about God, or a Higher Power. Particularly for those who were raised in religious families where overeating was understood as a moral failing, any hint of religion is enough to send the overeater in the opposite direction. Therefore, successful utilization of a program of recovery may depend on being able to distinguish spirituality from religion.
Continue reading "Spirituality, Religion, and Overeating" »
by Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
The implications of the first step of any of the Twelve Step programs
are frequently confusing for the uninitiated. I offer here my own
interpretation of how this step applies to the lives of compulsive
eaters. First let me emphasize that the experience of powerless is
ideally liberating, not a source of hopelessness.
Admitting we are powerless over food simply suggests that when we
ingest an amount of food that is either too little to meet our needs or
overwhelming to our systems, we are not able to control the
consequences of our under- or overeating. Those who are not afflicted
with eating disorders are quite aware that if they do not eat, the
signs and symptoms of anorexia can not be avoided, and if they overeat,
the development of obesity is a likely consequence. This awareness is
not simply an intellectual understanding, but more importantly, a
psychological and emotional acceptance that leads to abstaining from
disordered eating.
Continue reading "Food and the Concept of Powerlessness" »
by Jeffrey D. Roth, MD, FASAM, FAGPA
You may have noticed the sharp increase in health club memberships and
attendance right after January 1. Millions of us suffering from
remorse over weight gained during holiday binging vow to lose weight by
dieting and exercising. The grim determination associated this kind of
NewYear’s resolution is a set up for the high attrition rate of
attendance during the ensuing weeks and months.
I have sometimes wondered with a bit of cynicism whether the health
clubs collude, probably unintentionally, with this boom and bust cycle
of health awareness. I have also seen personal trainers, during most
times of the year, suggest a degree and frequency of exercise which is
designed for rapid weight loss, and which also usually leads to member
drop out. Since the health club may collect an initiation fee and a
few months of membership fee up front, the short sighted profits for
health club and member do not seem to take into account the need for
long term participation if long term results are desired.
Continue reading "New Year’s Resolutions" »
by Jeffrey D. Roth, MD, FASAM, FAGPA
When discussing recovery from an addiction, service is a concept that
is often misunderstood. When one has been raised in a culture where
serving others indicates a role of being “less than,” or serving others
is an obligation rather than a privilege, service leads to resentment
and for the compulsive overeater, to food. Recovery for the compulsive
overeater, however, may entail redefining service as a tool for
connecting to others and breaking the isolation that supports the
disease.
Continue reading "Holidays season and support" »
by Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
Anonymity may seem an irrelevant topic for a blog on compulsive
overeating. After all, how secretive can an obese compulsive overeater
be about suffering from the disease? Yet the focus on body weight and
appearance obscures the degree to which a compulsive overeater may seek
to conceal the process of eating which generated the weight and
appearance. Anonymity is frequently confused with secrecy.
Continue reading "Overeating and Anonymity" »
by Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
Members of Overeaters Anonymous sometimes joke that the name of their fellowship might have been Overreaders Anonymous. Compulsive overeaters may consume literature as compulsively as they consume food. With all of the self-help books and magazine articles about weight loss, the compulsive overeater may become dizzy just thinking about reading the overwhelming amount of advice and suggestions (which in the magazines inevitably are followed by recipes for cakes, cookies and other desserts which may be toxic for the compulsive overeater).
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by Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
Isolation is both a cause and effect of compulsive
overeating. Food is usually the
compulsive overeater’s best friend; loneliness becomes a major trigger for the
next binge. In addition, the process of
eating compulsively isolates the sufferer from other people when this process
is associated with unbearable shame. Making contact with other people, especially with others who suffer from
the same disease, is therefore an important tool of recovery. This contact tends to interrupt the downward
spiral of isolation in which the disease progresses.
Continue reading "Using the telephone" »
Jeffrey Roth, M.D.
Writing is familiar tool to many compulsive overeaters who have used the services of a nutritionist or dietician. These professionals often ask their clients to write a food diary that details what they have eaten each day for a specified period of time. From this diary the professional may determine whether the person has eaten in a nutritionally balanced manner. When these food diaries are kept over a longer period of time, the professional is able to match the intake of food with weight lost or gained, and therefore make recommendations on how to regulate food intake to gain, lose or stabilize weight.
Continue reading "Dear food diary," »
by Jeffrey D. Roth, MD, FASAM, FAGPA
Recognizing that attempting to recover from compulsive overeating by oneself is futile, asking for help from outside of oneself becomes an essential component of the process of recovery. Many compulsive overeaters seek help from the professional community, whether from their physician, a nutritionist or a therapist. Unfortunately, many professionals do not accept that compulsive overeating is a disease, and they may advise those who consult them to use diets or exercise that the overeater has attempted and failed to sustain because these interventions were not accomplished with adequate support.
Continue reading "Sponsorship" »
by Jeffrey D. Roth, MD, FASAM, FAGPA
Even with the awareness of how one’s pattern of eating has led to obesity, and even with the help and support of professional nutritionists and/or therapists, many compulsive overeaters are not able to maintain abstinence from compulsive overeating without more extensive support. Like any addiction, compulsive overeating leads to increasing social, psychological, emotional and spiritual isolation. Meeting with other compulsive overeaters may provide the antidote to this isolation. Many successful approaches to recovery from this disease utilize the power of mutual support to accomplish the reduction of isolation and shame that are so pervasive among its sufferers.
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by Jeffrey D. Roth, MD, FASAM, FAGPA
One of the major challenges of recovering from an addiction is
developing an awareness of when one is practicing the disease of
addiction, and when one is engaged in the process of recovery.
Recovering compulsive overeaters have recognized this challenge,
especially when they compare their process of recovery to the process
experienced by alcoholics. “The alcoholic has a clear boundary of
abstaining from alcohol, we have to walk into the lion’s den three
times a day.”
Continue reading "A plan of eating" »
by Jeffrey D. Roth, MD, FASAM, FAGPA
I am an addiction psychiatrist and group psychotherapist in Chicago, Illinois. I am grateful to treat many compulsive overeaters who are recovering from their addiction using the program of Overeaters Anonymous. My colleagues in addictions medicine have often witnessed the miracle of a hopeless alcoholic receiving the gift of sobriety by practicing the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. Unfortunately, we continue to struggle with the burden of denial about compulsive overeating being as deadly as alcoholism: a chronic, progressive, relapsing disease for which recovery is possible.
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